i think it’s noble to wait and when i was younger i thought i would but honestly in this day and age i don’t think it’s realistic. an i think that’s ok. just because you have sex before marriage doesn’t make you a whore. that being said, be smart about it. be safe about it. don’t have sex with just anyone. wear a condom, use birth control. don’t get yourself into situations you aren’t prepared for. use your head and enjoy it with someone you love.